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tidy ~ janet @tidest@fishpost.trade
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digital ponderer ~ physical wanderer

i’m trying being janet, i kinda like it!
Location
Denver, US
Birthday
1998-01-14
Pronouns
she/they/he (EN)
eepy true
webbed site
https://myon.xyz
other webbed site
https://tide.st
first ever fedi post (not here) 2025-03-03T03:14:35.946162Z
threema id DX3XS7DM
high edition https://gts.fishpost.trade/@tidest
photo edition https://gts.fishpost.trade/@lighttable
ntfy? https://ntfy.tide.st/fishpost
smoke signals tidy.8043
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tidy ~ janet @tidest@fishpost.trade
1mo
memory corruption detected... continue? (Y/n/h)
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tidy ~ janet @tidest@fishpost.trade
1mo
@ww @aura @xyla HSL gang rise up
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tidy ~ janet @tidest@fishpost.trade
1mo
@aura @xyla don't forgor value!
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tidy ~ janet @tidest@fishpost.trade
1mo
are you more of a pls or plz kind of being
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tidy ~ janet @tidest@fishpost.trade
1mo
oh dear, seems i'm not energy star compliant
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tidy ~ janet @tidest@fishpost.trade
1mo
whirrr, click click ka click
beep
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tidy ~ janet @tidest@fishpost.trade
1mo
that sort of writing implies that it's a good idea to attempt to get some rest

best of luck on the day or night ahead folks <3
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tidy ~ janet @tidest@fishpost.trade
1mo
these 600 or so characters achieve nothing ah heck, noticed i've been using 'real' an awful lot lately
welp, time to mentally overwrite that writing habit
​:neocat_woozy:​

"but what if you don't want to" you may ask yourself
it's going to happen anyway, odd quirk of who i am
every now and again i'll catch myself abusing a phrase or fancy word and i stop that or get absurdly self conscious about it and stop it anyway

if it's reasonable to find things somewhat endearing about yourself, this is actually one such thing i see in me
keeps the writing style from going stale you see :3
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tidy ~ janet @tidest@fishpost.trade
1mo
@aura real
normalize loops and carabiners
or like, other sorts of locking quick clips, have a really neat one for one of my hardware keys :3
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tidy ~ janet @tidest@fishpost.trade
1mo
@wyatt if this is the linking i think it is
i read through a bit of the thread
they want the attention in my (harsh) opinion

rule 0 of the internet basically is don't. feed. the. trolls.
and it reads to me that they're egging them on
i know this is harsh as fuck to be saying about another's friend, but it's how i read the situation

they could've handled it much better, never started a hellthread in the first place... we've all got moderation tools for a reason...

you're not in the wrong here, yes, you made a mistake, but if i follow right, you've already corrected
please don't blame yourself
you don't deserve to be in pain over other's choices
nobody deserves to hurt over other's choices
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tidy ~ janet @tidest@fishpost.trade
1mo
@wyatt if i can offer a little comfort in this particular scenario, they've got the same self moderation tools we all do, they can mute the thread if it's causing that much trouble for them..
it's honestly a really small mistake in the grand scheme, it'll be alright, i'm certain
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tidy ~ janet @tidest@fishpost.trade
1mo
@wyatt it's ok to make mistakes, it's how we learn, it's how we grow
when it becomes a problem is when we don't learn from them, when we don't see what went wrong, don't attempt to do better the next time

i don't know what happened (or even if you're speaking in the general sense), but i do hope you can overcome it, learn, and grow from it
i've got faith in you, having seen little bits of the good you put into the world, you do seem the sort to want to do better :)
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tidy ~ janet @tidest@fishpost.trade
1mo
macrocule
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tidy ~ janet @tidest@fishpost.trade
1mo
@prettygood barely, but it so seems we did :3
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tidy ~ janet @tidest@fishpost.trade
1mo
@aura yearnizona tea
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tidy ~ janet @tidest@fishpost.trade
1mo
what a week huh
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tidy ~ janet @tidest@fishpost.trade
1mo
don't buy cheap threaded earrings, lesson learned...
threads failed before i could get it in, but at least i didn't have to learn the lesson a hard way, like losing an earring in my sleep

what kinda potmetal ass "stainless steel" were those made of to have threads fail like that.. i know the kind of force even quite fine threads can take in stainless, it's waay more than barely finger tight...
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tidy ~ janet @tidest@fishpost.trade
1mo
@ezri found this project a little while back, i kinda like its semantics, not sure if it's meta though..
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tidy ~ janet @tidest@fishpost.trade
1mo
oh, and totally worth mentioning that if you happen to be somewhere nearby me (colorado, or i'm visiting your area) and you want a sony a100, i'm happy to give it to ya :3
i don't use it so much since having gotten newer bodies and i'm happy to spread the photography bug
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tidy ~ janet @tidest@fishpost.trade
1mo
tonight i took pictures of all the things i capture pictures with balanced on my hand, with a plush bee in my jacket pocket
ya know, just normal night time activities