tidy ~ janet (@tidest)

@wyatt if this is the linking i think it is
i read through a bit of the thread
they want the attention in my (harsh) opinion

rule 0 of the internet basically is don't. feed. the. trolls.
and it reads to me that they're egging them on
i know this is harsh as fuck to be saying about another's friend, but it's how i read the situation

they could've handled it much better, never started a hellthread in the first place... we've all got moderation tools for a reason...

you're not in the wrong here, yes, you made a mistake, but if i follow right, you've already corrected
please don't blame yourself
you don't deserve to be in pain over other's choices
nobody deserves to hurt over other's choices