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tidy ~ janet @tidest@fishpost.trade
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tidy ~ janet @tidest@fishpost.trade
7mo
@Paradox uhh, 'ianal'? expands out to 'i am not a lawyer', but also, 'i anal' :p

and totally agreed, fly what flags you want, just don't spread hate
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tidy ~ janet @tidest@fishpost.trade
7mo
@Paradox i think that because it specifies government property in there somewhere, the ones writing the bill could get around free speech laws
iunno, ianal :p

(and yes, i know all the problems with that acronym, i'm using it to comedic effect)
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tidy ~ janet @tidest@fishpost.trade
7mo
@Paradox that totally is how it's used though

i suppose i draw an association and particular bit of pride from it, being bisexual at it's simplest (sooo much more complicated than that, but beside the point)

and really, it probably doesn't matter one way or the other, after all
definitions-
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tidy ~ janet @tidest@fishpost.trade
7mo
re: missing the point @ww ok, that's totally fair
letting my personal experience leak into an argument, yet again
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i was very lucky to have grown up with a parent that'd ignore age ratings and like, treat me and my siblings as mature enough to handle the more difficult topics, and be open to us asking questions when we didn't understand

point still stands with 'viewer discretion advised' bumpers, but yeah, i should probably make a quick amendment to my post ^^'
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tidy ~ janet @tidest@fishpost.trade
7mo
@Paradox hmm, it does just seem to be the name for it
film/theater/art is full of weird names like that
what would you suggest it be called?
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tidy ~ janet @tidest@fishpost.trade
7mo
@Paradox which, that article also got me reading and like, damn salt lake's current mayor did an awesome (context, i come from there, so decently relevant to me)

but, long and short of it is that a bill was passed banning flying flags excluding some exemptions
and they went and modified pride flags to make them part of the exemptions, bypassing the bill ^^

now, i'm sure it wasn't just the mayor, there's likely a whole team behind this, but still, damned awesome act of defiance
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tidy ~ janet @tidest@fishpost.trade
7mo
@Paradox hmm, seems suspiciously close to the bisexual pride flag
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tidy ~ janet @tidest@fishpost.trade
7mo
@Paradox can totally see what you're getting at with the softer, more pastel pinks (still like em tho)
but, when i think pink, my mind goes towards the almost aggressive, magenta-ey pinks
the ones that aren't a real color, cause it's the extremes of the spectrum and our brains are just making it all up :3
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tidy ~ janet @tidest@fishpost.trade
7mo
@Paradox bingo.
it does seem to be the most common argument i've seen against them though, 'it's leaning into the algospeak, don't self censor!' but like, i can say fuck inside them and it'll still be fuck out the other side ^^
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tidy ~ janet @tidest@fishpost.trade
7mo
@Paradox @hj truee
lemmy, but like, actually activitypub complaint :3
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tidy ~ janet @tidest@fishpost.trade
7mo
@Paradox intense, but i can dig it
probably somewhat predictably mine would likely be purple, pink and cyan
very comfy colors to me ^^
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tidy ~ janet @tidest@fishpost.trade
7mo
and wow, i really started rambling towards the end there, didn't i... ah, big topics ​:neocat_up:​
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tidy ~ janet @tidest@fishpost.trade
7mo
@Paradox @hj so, lemmy?
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tidy ~ janet @tidest@fishpost.trade
7mo
cw meta; a counter argument to those that claim it's censorship it's really not, like, it's in the name, 'content warning'
it's much closer to
an ESRB/PEGI rating, a movie rating, a 'viewer discretion advised' bumper or even an epilepsy warning at the start of a game... none of those are considered to be censorship, right? (now, what's done to achieve those ratings can be, but that's a whole different topic)
all it does at the end of the day is tell you what's in the box before you chose to partake of what's inside

all it is, is a show of empathy for your fellow beings, a quick 'hey, i could see how this is upsetting or uncomfortable, let me not subject you to the post if you don't want to be'
like, if it was more normalized on the big servers (like the actually big ones (mastosoc, cough)), and heck, social media in general instead of flashing 'xyz person did something dumb or bad, go be mad' every other post, i'd probably be way more into them

now, i don't think less of those that don't use them (excluding some topics, but they get used there anyway, typically speaking), but, i do think far higher of those that do
and like, even if they go forgotten every now and again, it doesn't take away that respect earned
that's all to say, i suppose, if you're trying, you're doing more than most

also, unless the description is blatantly, or like maliciously incorrect, you can't get them wrong... i've seen a few worry about that kind of thing and their CWs always seem to be in good faith, so, to those that do worry about that kinda thing, you're more than likely doing alright ^^
ah, and that's not a criticism of joke or vestigial CWs, those aren't super a part of this... but that was probably obvious and i'm overthinking

edit: totally forgor about the whole age attachment to ESRB/PEGI and movie ratings and like, how for some those are actually enforced >~<
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tidy ~ janet @tidest@fishpost.trade
7mo
@xyla waow ​:neocat_pleading:​
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tidy ~ janet @tidest@fishpost.trade
7mo
meds ah, that would explain the odd feeling while at work
i forgor
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good to have solved that mystery...
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tidy ~ janet @tidest@fishpost.trade
7mo
me looking at an album in my library
favorite track not starred
like, do i just jam to it so hard that i forgor?
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tidy ~ janet @tidest@fishpost.trade
7mo
@halva would you be interested in some reading that helped me, at least a bit, with that particular self doubt?
it'll be a few hours till i can get them all rounded up (work :/ ) but if you'd like i'd be happy to share ^^
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tidy ~ janet @tidest@fishpost.trade
7mo
pretty sunset tonight ​:neocat_melt:​
one of those things i wish could stick around forever
even if it is best that time flows ever forward
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tidy ~ janet @tidest@fishpost.trade
7mo
@Paradox @epsi noms your subeddit ​:neocat_nom_bread:​